We constantly question the fairness of many situations and occurrences but what is fairness really? No matter what type of situation a person is in, fairness will always be defined differently. Us, human beings can never truly be non-bias, it is just who we are to have feelings and opinions. So then, how can one really know what is fair when there will always be bias? What may be unfair to one person may be fair to another person.

I am an agnostic theist which, to my understanding, is one who believes in a god without knowing for sure if that god really exists. And so I think that even though something may seem unfair to you, someone up there may have a difference in opinion. Perhaps with respect to you, it is an unfair situation but to that 'deity', the big picture is the most important. This also delves into the whole "your life has a purpose and everything that you have encountered has brought you here because you are a part of HIS big plan," and that's not an area I'd like to touch upon for I have minimal knowledge in religion of any kind.

I did not mean for this post to be dominated by all this religious talk, but it seemed to have gone that way. Sorry if I offended anyone and if my point did not come across clear. I tried my best to keep things simple and some thoughts that were supposed to connect things together might have gotten lost along the way. I basically just wanted to say that we shouldn't spend so much time pondering the unchangeable effects of a situation because it is a waste of time and will not make the situation better for anyone. It is alright to grief and give pity but it is not alright to take blame on oneself nor to put blame onto another. There is a time and place for sadness but at that very moment it is not the right time. The best way to deal with this is to move on and attempt to better your future by doing something about it.

I suppose I needed a conclusion paragraph if I had really wanted to get my point across but it's 3 AM now and I am exhausted. This wasnt meant specifically for anyone, well actually it was mostly meant for me. So I supposed this was somewhat of a rant. Sorry if this was too confusing and for the fact that I was unable to proofread.

Hope you're all doing well. Toodles.

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